Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Bloom Where You Are Planted


I’m not sure how it became my motto.  I saw it first on a t-shirt.  Then it started appearing everywhere I turned.  Bloom where you are planted.  At first, I just thought it was a cute saying.  But the more I’ve been thinking about it, it is great advice.

Last summer, we had random sunflowers just popping up all over our yard.  I would be amazed at all the strange places the sprouts would pop up from.  I blamed the scattered flowers on the birds.  I laughed to myself each time I discovered one.

Then one day I spotted one delicate, little sprout leaning towards the sunshine from a crazy corner of my girls’ swing set.  It was a partly shaded spot.  The sprout was protected from kid feet by a neglected corner spot behind the climbing ladder.  I watched this sprout each day, tracking its progress.  Thinking, there was no way that sunflower could bloom where it was haphazardly planted.  I was waiting for it to turn yellow, wither and die.

But that sprout grew.  It grew tall and it grew straight.  The sunflower head widened.  It managed to poke though the side and out of the corner through the swing set ladder.  Always reaching, yearning for precious sunrays. 

I marveled at that sunflower.  Out of all the beautiful flowers we had purposely planted in the flower beds last summer, this “stray” sunflower was my favorite in the whole yard.  I was rooting it on!  Cheering it on in my head as I surveyed its progress each day.  When the day arrived that it fully bloomed, it took my breath away.  This sunflower was stunning.  The golden hued petals astounded me.

And that is when it hit me.  That flower bloomed where it was planted.  It didn’t choose the unlikely corner of a child’s play area.  It didn’t select my yard above all others because it had the best soil or choicest plot of land.  And it certainly did wait for the best time.  Nope.  The seed had no say, no choice in the matter.  It simply was planted and it did what it was intended to do.  It sprouted and grew.  It blossomed and bloomed! 

Ladies, I don’t know about you, but I want to bloom where God has planted me! I long to be deeply rooted in His love.  I desire my life to be a beautiful testimony of our awesome Creator.  I want to do what God has intended for me to do: to love Him and love others.  I’m not going to allow lies and doubt and fear to try to get me to wither and die off. I am excited to grow and blossom!

“Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the young women.” Song of Solomon 2:2 (NIV)

Don’t believe the lie that we have to wait for the “perfect” time or place.  We don’t have to put it off, waiting for this season of life to end and another to begin.  And perhaps blooming right now is the farthest from your mind.  You are just trying to survive each day.  But you know what, like that sunflower, you are exactly where God wants you to be. He has planted you where you are for such a time as this.  Sweet friends, let’s surrender whole heartedly to God, right now, right here.  Wherever you are, allow Him to grow you.  Then you will bloom where you are planted!

Oh what a beautiful garden that will be one day – when we are all blooming for the King!

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens… He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” Ecclesiastes 3:1,11 (NIV)


Our sunflower, Aug. 2015, blooming in the unlikeliest of spots


Post by: Marcy Gates




Monday, March 14, 2016

This Hot Mess


If you know me for more than like, a day, then you have probably heard me refer to myself as a ‘hot mess’. It’s totally what the kids say these days. I have a dear friend who just shakes her head and giggles at me when I say this about myself, she thinks I’m silly for thinking this way.

One of my most favorite t-shirts says... you guessed it, “Jesus Loves This Hot Mess”. I get compliments every time I wear it. I think I love it so much because it reminds me that Jesus never asked me to be perfect.

I feel like a hot mess a lot of mornings at about 8:55 AM. I am still pouring coffee, throwing food into lunch boxes, trying to get my child’s coat on him, going over the list in my head and scrambling out the door... when I should have been in the car driving out of the neighborhood 15 minutes earlier. “I am always late!” I tell myself. “Ugh, when will I get my life together? I am such a hot mess”

Work’s got you down, feel like a hot mess?
Had a fight with your spouse, feel like a hot mess?
Yelled at your child, feel like a hot mess?
Laundry piled high, feel like a hot mess?
Financial mismanagement,
Haven’t made up with your friend,
Can’t forgive your sister,
Feeling like Monday is on repeat,
Haven’t been to church in months...
Feel like a hot mess?

Whatever part of the spectrum you are on, it is easy to feel like a hot mess. But just like my t-shirt is a reminder for me, I want to remind you that Jesus loves you!

Truth be told, I’m not really a hot mess. Neither are you. So don’t stay stuck there and don’t let it pull you away from God.

Ever tell yourself you are just too messy to be anywhere near God? I know I have. Oh yeah, I have. “I am just too much of a mess right now to (praise, worship, thank) pray to God, He doesn’t want to hear what I have to say.” Allow me to let you in on a little secret, God is not afraid of your messy.

Then I realized that my heart was bitter and I was all torn up inside. I was so foolish and ignorant-- I must have seemed like a senseless animal to you. Yet I still belong to you: you hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, leading me to a glorious destiny. Psalm 73:21-24 (NLT)

When David was angry, bitter and confused; he acted like a fool. I am sure he felt like a hot mess. Yet he recognized that he still belonged to God. He belonged to God and God was guiding him, providing counsel and leading David into his glorious destiny!
God is not afraid of your messy!

Don’t let your “sometimes messy” lead you in the wrong direction. Put your faith and trust in the truth that God is right there with you, guiding you, counseling you and leading you into your destiny. Lay your messy down right there at His feet and let Jesus minister to you. Don’t shy away from God when you feel like the ‘Hot Mess Express’ (oh yeah, I had to pull that one out). Recognize, just like David did, that you still belong to God.

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26 (NIV)

When the world has got you down, let God be your strength. When you are bogged down with life’s blunders and complications, remember who you belong to... forever!

But as for me, how good it is to be near God! I have made the Sovereign LORD my shelter, and I will tell everyone about the wonderful things you do. Psalm 73:28 (NLT)

If you are feeling, or have ever felt, like a hot mess I have the remedy; three parts praise, two parts thanksgiving and one part testimony. Don’t neglect God in those moments, praise God for who He is, thank Him for what He has done, and testify about what He is doing!

God’s not afraid of our messy. He is right there with us, asking us to be faithful. Trust Him, even when your heart and flesh fail you.

You will probably still hear me refer to myself as a hot mess sometimes, but only because I know God is not afraid of my messy. I belong to Him, he is holding my right hand, guiding me in His counsel, leading me into a glorious destiny! 

Post by: Jimmie Lee DiIanni